Author Archives: Johan Wiklander

Family values can be unstated or stated – what are yours? Children and especially teens need clear direction and understanding of what family values parents and caregivers agree to. Family values when they are in the open and known by all members become a valuable tool to build cooperation and a family team. What is […]

Positive language provides children with clarity Children (especially tweens and teens) pay attention to positive language quicker than they listen (or even hear) negativity. Negative breeds negative and children can more easily understand words they can picture in their head (visualize). The day I tried to remove the word “not” when I talked to the […]

Calming me is my most difficult. This is probably one of the most difficult things as a parent to handle my kids — me. We all know that preserving family harmony makes it easier, but it is so difficult when it really matters. Your ability to work on your own mental and physical condition will […]

Forget about the targets you want to achieve and work towards the desired feelings instead because they will take you even further in helping your child grow. I think like this.. We choose to put labels on behavior. The label may be a diagnosis like Autism, ADHD etc. The behavior—how we act and how we […]

My dream as a father is being able prepare my children so well that one day they feel independent and have the ability to believe in themselves so they dare to take on their own dreams and projects.

Have you ever dared to listen to yourself when you’re talking and reflected of how many times you use the word no? How many times do you tell your kid what not to do instead of what you want them to do?

With emotional experience I give my sons the ability to dare going forward Johan Wiklander We all have a comfort zone where we feel safe, happy and satisfied. If we are about to step outside and see the risk of failing that’s when we feel uneasy. It may be something we find hard to understand, something […]

All children are unique and my ambition is to collect my own thoughts together with great content from all possible sources. My mission is to give everyone something that can make the everyday life as a parent a bit easier.

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